Saturday, August 09, 2008

Self-Focused Egotism and Narcissism

I was very impressed by the charisma and policies of John Edwards. I found his personal story to be very compelling and worth honoring. Therefore, I am deeply saddened to hear about his extramarital affair and early denials. I am pained to think about how the news impacted his wife and children. However, I am impressed with Senator Edwards' diagnosis of his failure of character: "a self-focus, an egotism, a narcissism that leads you to believe that you can do whatever you want." Speaking truth to power must always start with self first! I suspect that his political career is essentially over; but, he is now in a position to help us continue to speak truth to those in power. May he use his voice wisely and boldly, but with great humility.



WASHINGTON (CNN) -- John Edwards, who campaigned throughout the 2008 Democratic primaries alongside his family -- and made his marriage a central part of his overall message -- was dealt a political blow Friday after admitting to having an extramarital affair.

In an interview on ABC News "Nightline," Edwards acknowledged the affair with 42-year-old Rielle Hunter, which began after she was hired to make documentary videos for his campaign, ABC said.

"I am responsible for it. I alone am responsible for it," Edwards said on ABC News "Nightline."

Edwards told the network that his rise from "a small-town boy in North Carolina" who "came from nothing" to a successful lawyer, U.S. senator and national public figure "fed a self-focus, an egotism, a narcissism that leads you to believe that you can do whatever you want."

He denied, however, being the father of the woman's child, as tabloid reports have alleged.

The former North Carolina senator, who was often mentioned as a possible candidate for Sen. Barack Obama's vice presidential pick, does not believe his admission will have a long-lasting impact on his career.

Edwards, the vice presidential candidate during Sen. John Kerry's 2004 presidential bid, told ABC on Friday that he never expected to be chosen as Obama's running mate, but that his public career has not ended. He said he would not worry about any possible positions in an Obama administration.

"I don't know what's possible and what's gone," he said.

Opinions, however, are mixed whether he would have a future in politics.

CNN contributor James Carville, a former aide to Bill Clinton -- who acknowledged an extramarital affair with Monica Lewinsky in his second term -- said Edwards' career is in dire straits.

"Certainly, his political career is in shambles. It's not going to come back. I humanly feel sorry for Mrs. Edwards. I feel sorry for the Edwards children. But I'm not shocked, and I guarantee you it's going to happen again. I promise you," he said Friday.

Elizabeth Edwards, in a posting on the Daily Kos Web site said:

"The fact that it is a mistake that many others have made before him did not make it any easier for me to hear when he told me what he had done.

But he did tell me. And we began a long and painful process in 2006, a process oddly made somewhat easier with my [cancer] diagnosis in March of 2007. This was our private matter, and I frankly wanted it to be private, because as painful as it was, I did not want to have to play it out on a public stage as well."

Like Carville, CNN senior political analyst Gloria Borger said this could end his career.

"Obviously lying like this, brazenly, is going to put an end, probably, to his political career and could affect whether he gets any role if Barack Obama were to win the presidency," she said Friday.

Don Fowler, a former Democratic Party chairman, said this week that Edwards might be forfeiting a major role at the party's upcoming convention in Denver -- or in a future Democratic administration -- unless he cleared the air.

"I think the longer these allegations go unanswered and unresponded to, the more difficult it is for the people producing the convention to give him a prominent spot," Fowler said. iReport: What's your reaction to Edwards' affair?

Obama, in Hawaii for a weeklong vacation, told reporters he understands that Edwards does not plan to attend the convention.

"This is a difficult and painful time for them, and I think they need to work through that process of healing," he said. "My sense is that that's going to be their top priority."

CNN senior political analyst David Gergen, who served as a White House adviser to Presidents Nixon, Ford, Reagan and Clinton -- said Democrats could have been hurt if Edwards had clinched the Democratic nomination.

"He put the Democratic Party in real jeopardy," he said. "If he had been the nominee of the party now, and this thing had blown up ... it would have -- it would have ruined the Democrats' chances of taking back the White House."

Edwards announced in January that he was dropping out of the 2008 Democratic presidential race. He later endorsed Obama in early May.

He trailed Sen. Hillary Clinton and Obama in the early contests. He came in third in key races in New Hampshire and South Carolina.

Gergen added that the Democratic Party needs to "move swiftly" to resolve this political firestorm so it doesn't linger with voters this fall.

Speaking in support of Obama in Las Vegas, Nevada, on Friday, Clinton responded briefly to a reporter's question about what, if any, impact the revelation of the affair would have on Democrats.

"My thoughts and prayer are with the Edwards family today," she said. "That's all I have to say."

Republican strategist Alex Castellanos said Friday that Edwards' infidelity may affect both parties' images.

"The questions are going to be asked, does this hurt Republicans or Democrats, or the political impact. And the truth is that it's going to hurt everybody, because right now, in an uncertain world, we're looking to see who we can trust to lead the country, and this lessens, I think, faith in political leadership in general," he said Friday.

Democratic strategist and CNN contributor Paul Begala said Edwards' affair will result in a "larger loss of faith in institutions."

"But keep in mind, you know, John Edwards did not order that anyone be tortured. He did not violate the Geneva Convention. He did not forge a document to lead us into a war. He cheated on his wife," he said.

Begala added that while this is a shortcoming for the former senator and a personal tragedy for him and his family, he holds no public office.

By Ed Hornick

CNN's Scott Bronstein, Drew Griffin, Matt Smith and Paul Vercammen contributed to this report.

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1 comment:

Unknown said...

Self-focused egotism and narcissim...
Sounds like all the Americans I've ever met!